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Neilson and I went to Chinese the day before he left. We got our fortunes at the end of the meal of course. I opened mine first. If you can't read it, it says, "your luck is about to change." ACK!
We thought that was pretty funny until Neil opened his. It says, "You will have an exciting business adventure." Well we about died laughing at the table. Go Confuscious.

Deployment Day 5

Day 5 is done. We had hash for dinner in my new cast iron skillet. The potatos were left over from Christmas and the roast was left over from Mindi :) All told dinner took 10 minutes to throw together.

After dinner we went to the library where they had a gingerbread making event. We actually made paper houses and Grace's turned out cute I think. The kids also got treat bags which included stickers. Grace quickly put all the gingerbread on Creighton's arm and put all the candy canes on herself.

We didn't win the decorating contest but we did win a doorprize - a very cool book about how to make different gingerbread houses.

Back Blogging

It's coldish today in Texas - yes it does sort of happen. And so I decided to do some summer dreaming and post some pictures from this summer because I was such a bad blogger.

These are from Grace's swimming lessons this summer. She took two sessions and went from crying and having to be "helped" (read thrown) into the pool to jumping off the diving board without a lifejacket all by herself.

She will take lessons again this summer but she came a loooooonnnggg way. She will put her face in the water. She can do the crawl and backstroke and most importantly, she has great confidence in the water. I credit it all to the large man you see in some of these pictures - Mr. Dave. Mr. Dave was very patient and encouraging and convinced a stubborn Grace that she could learn to swim. I will admit my first impression of Mr. Dave was wrong and I've had to eat my words. He was an awesome teacher and we'll be back with him next summer.

Just some pictures

Trying to catch a smile but that is proving difficult as Creighton is very intersted in looking at the camera and gets this concentrated look whenever i try.

Deployment Day 4

OK now I've really set myself up for a huge project. I've been doing a daily update and as much as I'd like to keep this up I just don't have faith that I can. We'll see.

Today Grace had school. As I suspected, it's a challenging task to get two kids out the door on time by myself. We'll get better I know. We just need the practice.

Creighton and I worked on the house today. We did laundry, cleaned the kitchen and wrapped Diane's presents so we could take a pile of things to the post office. Then we picked up a photo at Walgreens, picked up Grace from school then off to the post office. BAD CHOICE - it was insane at the post office but we survived and made our way home.

We had a quick dinner because Grace had practice for the Children's Pageant at church. She is a choir angel and gets to sing the songs. The pageant is Christmas Eve during the mass. She'll do great and Mommy will make sure to record it.

hmmmm that's about all we did today. I'm wondering when things are going to slow down...

Travel Update

I got a call last night at 11pm from Neilson. He has made it to Kuwait safe and sound. He reports that he will most likely not have internet access until round about his birthday when he is at his final destination.

His flight was long and thankfully uneventful. It was late, however taking off. We dropped him off at the company to draw his weapon Friday at 11:30 pm. Wheels up was scheduled for 7:30am Saturday morning. Well, the aircraft broke before getting here and the crew was up fixing it so they needed their required sleeptime so from my understanding, wheels up was at 7;30 pm. No, we did not go wait with him -- didn't want to say goodbye again.

Anyway, he did make it to Kuwait and they are busy getting organized to move north. Round about Christmas he will go to a commanders class at a different location and like I said before, he will be at his final destination on his birthday give or take a day.

Like I said before, he will not have internet access for a monthish. He does have a few phone cards (thanks mom!) to make calls. FYI he has access to AT&T phones so those are the phone cards that work. Be aware, that just because it says 600 minutes on the card does not mean that's how many domestic minutes. Iraq to America calls are expensive! Oh and I do have his address. due to OPSEC I will not post it but you can email or call me to get it.

Deployment Day 3

No pictures today. I need to get back into the habit of living behind the lens. We've pretty much settled into our deployment norm but today I realized I was missing one part - Kellie, Becci and Monica. They were my battle buddies last time and I've been subconciously looking for them this time around.

Deployment Day 2

Today was a beautiful day. We spent most of the afternoon outside in the carport with friends. Adrian, Loretta, Mindi and I chatted while Kyliesha, Lexi and Grace played. Did I get any pictures? No of course not. Pooh.

I also worked on cookies for cookie baskets. We made chocolate chip cookies and rice krispie treats and made up a big platter for Rear D. Creighton looked on with great interest can you tell?

Deployment Day 1

This is how we spent the first day of this deployment. We watched TV, played and made a gingerbread train. We also went to church that evening. One down, 364 to go.

Comments

mom brought it to my attention that only those with google or blogger accounts were allowed to post comments. well, i fixed that problem i think. :)

Random Picturing

Two of my favorite wildcats

Math

For a nerd like me I take comfort in math. Numbers don't lie and can be very powerful. Here are some numbers for you:

27 months - the length of time Neilson and I have been married
15 months - the amount of time during our marriage we have not lived together

Why do I bring this up? Well, Neil just left today for a fourth tour in the middle east. He is scheduled for 12 months which for the sake of my calculations we'll stick to for now. So if I add 12 months to the above figures you get:

39 months married
27 months spent apart

It's sad for separation and deployment to be the normal status of a marriage/relationship. At this rate using my conservative 12 month figure it will take roughly 2.5 years from today for us to get to the point where we are 50/50 in our seperation/living together.

All those numbers are depressing but numbers can be comforting too. For instance, a vast majority of soldiers return home to their families. The KIA rate is very low. And before anyone jumps down my throat, any KIA is too many but it is a comfort to know that an overwhelming majority of troopers come home. To expand on these numbers a bit, out of KIAs, officers make up a very slim portion. And that is my answer to "How do you do it and not me consumed by worry?" The numbers are in my favor - everything is going to be okay.

Priceless

Creighton always knows the perfect gift to give on just the right occasion. He gifted Neilson with real genuine smiles the night Neilson deployed. Priceless

What's Up Creighton?

Creighton, what are you looking at honey?

Why mommy, I'm looking at the ceiling fan with the lovely christmas ornaments and ornery elves.

Random Pictures

When you live with such good looking people you end up taking a lot of pictures for no particular reason. Tonight was such a night - just recording our evening.

The first photo are Grace and Creighton cuddling on the couch. I believe Frosty the Snowman was on TV. The second is another cuddle pose but I want to add a disclaimer. That is NOT a bruise on Creighton, we have a spot on our camera lens on the inside so I always play hide the spot when taking pictures -- obviously i lost this round.

Picture three is of Neil, Creighton and Grace for Grace's school. They have a wall in the hallway for pictures of all the deployed daddies with their kiddos. When the daddies are gone their photo is on a yellow ribbon with their name and who their child is. When they come back they take a picture of the child and daddy removing the picture from the wall and post the new picture to the "they're home" secton. Sadly, we are now providing a new picture for the hero wall and removing the "they're home" photo. poo

Christmas Program

Tonight was Grace's school Christmas program. She was an angel and got to twirl a scarf in her special songs. It was very cute and very much a typical preschool program (read mass chaos!)

All Dressed Up

Funny Faces

Purple Power

Grace got a new cheerleader uniform from Aunt Mandi, Uncle Wade and Gabriel for Christmas. She performed for us this afternoon and was cute as a button. We will have to post pictures of Creighton in his Wildcat glory soon as there was some unexpected flash flooding in his purple gear before we got pictures today.

Doh!

I saw somewhere recently an adorable picture of a newborn baby curled up in his Daddy's helmet. Of course I had to have that same shot so today I dutifully put Creighton in his junior First Cav onsie and got Neilson to take the padding out of his helmet. I put my sweet little guy in the helmet and got affirmation once again of my lack of spatial estimation. The picture I saw must have been of an almost preemie whose Daddy had an enormous gourd.

Yeah, Creighton's little heinie filled the helmet and the rest of him overfloweth and that was without the padding inside. So I revamped my idea of having him lay over/on Daddy's helmet. Well, you decide how successful this photoshoot was.

If I may, let me give you some idea of what young mister C was saying.

"Mommy, I'm too big to do this!"

"Mommy you're insane to think laying on kevlar is comfy!"

"I don't waaaaaaannnnnttttt ttttoooooooo!"

Hmmmmmm Maybe I'll get a picture of him in a ruck sack instead.