Deployment Day 1

This is how we spent the first day of this deployment. We watched TV, played and made a gingerbread train. We also went to church that evening. One down, 364 to go.

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Random Picturing

Two of my favorite wildcats

Math

For a nerd like me I take comfort in math. Numbers don't lie and can be very powerful. Here are some numbers for you:

27 months - the length of time Neilson and I have been married
15 months - the amount of time during our marriage we have not lived together

Why do I bring this up? Well, Neil just left today for a fourth tour in the middle east. He is scheduled for 12 months which for the sake of my calculations we'll stick to for now. So if I add 12 months to the above figures you get:

39 months married
27 months spent apart

It's sad for separation and deployment to be the normal status of a marriage/relationship. At this rate using my conservative 12 month figure it will take roughly 2.5 years from today for us to get to the point where we are 50/50 in our seperation/living together.

All those numbers are depressing but numbers can be comforting too. For instance, a vast majority of soldiers return home to their families. The KIA rate is very low. And before anyone jumps down my throat, any KIA is too many but it is a comfort to know that an overwhelming majority of troopers come home. To expand on these numbers a bit, out of KIAs, officers make up a very slim portion. And that is my answer to "How do you do it and not me consumed by worry?" The numbers are in my favor - everything is going to be okay.

Priceless

Creighton always knows the perfect gift to give on just the right occasion. He gifted Neilson with real genuine smiles the night Neilson deployed. Priceless

What's Up Creighton?

Creighton, what are you looking at honey?

Why mommy, I'm looking at the ceiling fan with the lovely christmas ornaments and ornery elves.

Random Pictures

When you live with such good looking people you end up taking a lot of pictures for no particular reason. Tonight was such a night - just recording our evening.

The first photo are Grace and Creighton cuddling on the couch. I believe Frosty the Snowman was on TV. The second is another cuddle pose but I want to add a disclaimer. That is NOT a bruise on Creighton, we have a spot on our camera lens on the inside so I always play hide the spot when taking pictures -- obviously i lost this round.

Picture three is of Neil, Creighton and Grace for Grace's school. They have a wall in the hallway for pictures of all the deployed daddies with their kiddos. When the daddies are gone their photo is on a yellow ribbon with their name and who their child is. When they come back they take a picture of the child and daddy removing the picture from the wall and post the new picture to the "they're home" secton. Sadly, we are now providing a new picture for the hero wall and removing the "they're home" photo. poo

Christmas Program

Tonight was Grace's school Christmas program. She was an angel and got to twirl a scarf in her special songs. It was very cute and very much a typical preschool program (read mass chaos!)

All Dressed Up

Funny Faces

Purple Power

Grace got a new cheerleader uniform from Aunt Mandi, Uncle Wade and Gabriel for Christmas. She performed for us this afternoon and was cute as a button. We will have to post pictures of Creighton in his Wildcat glory soon as there was some unexpected flash flooding in his purple gear before we got pictures today.

Doh!

I saw somewhere recently an adorable picture of a newborn baby curled up in his Daddy's helmet. Of course I had to have that same shot so today I dutifully put Creighton in his junior First Cav onsie and got Neilson to take the padding out of his helmet. I put my sweet little guy in the helmet and got affirmation once again of my lack of spatial estimation. The picture I saw must have been of an almost preemie whose Daddy had an enormous gourd.

Yeah, Creighton's little heinie filled the helmet and the rest of him overfloweth and that was without the padding inside. So I revamped my idea of having him lay over/on Daddy's helmet. Well, you decide how successful this photoshoot was.

If I may, let me give you some idea of what young mister C was saying.

"Mommy, I'm too big to do this!"

"Mommy you're insane to think laying on kevlar is comfy!"

"I don't waaaaaaannnnnttttt ttttoooooooo!"

Hmmmmmm Maybe I'll get a picture of him in a ruck sack instead.

Fashionista

Someday Grace will be mortified that her Daddy took the picture. She loves to wear holiday socks with complete disregard for what holiday it is. Look carefully at the picture of the little princess getting ready to

go to church. You see the Christmas tree, Advent Calendar, Nativity scense, huge pile of loot, cute Holiday dress on said princess.... now look at her feet. Powder blue with yellow chicks -- her Easter socks. She felt beautiful :) so Daddy just took her picture and we'll save it for later. bwahahaha

All I Want For Christmas

These photos are all I've wanted for Christmas for 5 years. Yes 5 years I've had to wait. You see, I only have 2 pictures of Grace with Santa. The first she was 8 months old and screaming and reaching for me. The other one she was 2 and was standing looking at Santa pointing to emphasize her point I believe.

Every year I've pleaded, begged and bribed to get her on the Jolly man's lap and this year she'd do it for Creighton. So on top of getting Grace on his lap, I managed to get Creighton there too. He's sleeping you'll notice. To make it even more perfect, there are no screaming children in the picture, they are in matching outfits and the to make the trifecta -- all are happy :).

Neilson really should have takena picture of me at this point because I was prancing I was so happy and my Christmas is complete. Yes you heard me, Christmas is this weekend in the Wahab household. Appropriately it is on the feast of St. Nicholas http://www.stnicholascenter.org/Brix?pageID=38 since Santa is coming tonight. We emailed him several months ago and asked if he'd mind coming early this year for obvious reasons. He was happy to oblige.

We have quite a bit of celebrating this weekend to make it special. Last night we went to BLORA for nature in lights, 2.5 miles of lights to drive through. VERY COOL

This morning we were up at 6:15 to be ready and out the door by 7:45 for Breakfast with Santa at Applebee's put on by the Enlisted Spouse's Club. That is where I got my beloved photo.

This afternoon we will be feasting on shrimp, crab, new potatoes, garlic bread and salad, the traditional Christmas Eve food for 4 generations. Then we will spirit off to Mass and home for gift opening round one. Santa Clause is coming to town tonight so tomorrow morning we will continue the gift opening and have a quiet day to enjoy each other.

Bathtime

Creighton loves his bath - just like his mommy. He loves to just soak in a warm tub and it relaxes him - again just like mommy. Grace took the first two pictures. Her photography is getting quite good isn't it?

Turnabout is Fair Play

Neilson caught this one Sunday afternoon I think.

Just A Shameless Picture

Tree Trimming

Wednesday we put up the Christmas tree. I know it seems like jumping the gun on Thanksgiving but I was desperate. I had Christmas presents stuck here there and everywhere and it was getting to the point where too many places were off limits! The other deciding factor was the annual ornament shopping trip. Much better to do that before Thanksgiving than on Black Friday :)

It took quite awhile to put up our tree and all it's ornaments. This is the first year we have all of Neilson's childhood ornaments to add to the box that I've collected. I'm pleased to say that no generic balls made it on the tree. We had enough sentimental/personal decorations this year! woot woot!

This year Creighton chose a glittery bi-plane and as you can see looks so excited about it. Grace chose a pink diamond flower. Neilson and I chose a "warhorse" in honor of 3-8.

Wreath Making

Tonight was our church Thanksgiving feast and wreath making night. We had a delicious feast (yes our second today) and then made a family wreath. Grace worked together to create our fantastic family Advent wreath. Grace wrapped the garland around the frame and then the two worked together to add berries, pine cones and a bow. Creighton even got in on the action by adding his pinecone. The finishing touch were the candles. As we worked we talked about how we use the wreath and when to light the candles. Grace was pretty proud of her work in is looking forward to lighting the first candle this weekend.